12 Things You Should Not Say To An Artist………
Below are 12 comments that artists constantly hear and dislike. I have heard them all in my time; in brackets, are the responses that I would like to deliver, but am too polite.
1. “My kid could do that.”
(Ah, ha! So where is this genius — cutting a deal with Sotheby’s?)
2. “I wish I could do that but I can’t draw a straight line.”
(Unless you’re Ludij Peden, it’s not that important.)
3. “Have you painted all your life?”
(No…..not yet!)
4. “I have an aunt (cousin/brother) who paints.”
(Let me guess, on Sundays?)
5. “How long did it take you to make that?”
(Since birth.)
6. “That must really be fun to do.”
(Yes, it is — if you like poverty, rejection, isolation and public criticism.)
7. “I don’t know anything about art, but I know what I like.”
(I like chocolate too. Trust your instincts, and also read and learn a little about the subject.)
8. “If it’s local it couldn’t be good……..I buy all my art in Melbourne (Sydney/Brisbane).”
(So move to Melbourne, and tell them that.)
9. “I wish I had time to do that.”
(After flossing regularly and rearranging your knickers’ drawer, forget it.)
10. “I’d like to buy your painting, but as I check my Rolex, I realise that I have to jump into my Lexus, hop on my jet and fly to Lizard Island. If I do buy it, could I have it for half price since we could do a private deal and cut out the gallery?”
(Please, get out of my life!)
11. “I would like something to go over my couch. Could you do that in mauve, pink and teal?”
(No, buy a new couch.)
12. “It’s perfect, I love it! But I’ll have to talk to my decorator first.”
(Does he/she hold your hand through all of life’s big decisions?)
But then, of course, many people cannot understand what drives an artist, and view them with suspicion :